Decision Paralysis: Causes, Symptoms & Treatment

Being unable to make decisions can feel incredibly paralyzing. Whether you’re at the grocery store, at work, or considering a big life change, indecision can bring on feelings of frustration and helplessness.

As mental distress is often at the root, decision paralysis has many possible causes. It could come on after a period of stress, be part of anxiety or depression, or signify what’s colloquially known as a “mental breakdown.”

You may not think that decision paralysis needs professional mental health support, but it may, depending on what’s causing it. There are many types of counseling and psychotherapy that could potentially help, each with its own method and focus.

This article will cover:

  • What decision paralysis is.
  • How the symptoms show up in daily life.
  • Potential causes of decision paralysis.
  • How different types of therapy help people with decision paralysis.
  • Where to find support.
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What Is Decision Paralysis?

Decision paralysis is a psychological state in which you’re unable to make a choice. You might: 

  • Feel you have too many options.
  • Fear making the wrong choice.
  • Be unable to weigh up the differences between choices.

Decision paralysis is one type of cognitive difficulty, alongside difficulties with problem solving, staying focused, and switching between tasks. These symptoms often arise together. However, as we’ll explore, they’re often accompanied (and caused) by emotional distress.[1] 

As a result, people with decision paralysis often end up taking no action at all. Common signs include:[2] 

  • Staring at a list of tasks, store shelf, or restaurant menu for a long period of time without making a decision.
  • Wanting to make the “best” choice, which results in making no choice.
  • Procrastinating deadlines and avoiding speaking or thinking about the choice entirely.
  • Worrying about the outcomes of each potential choice.
  • Feeling stressed, anxious, and overwhelmed about making decisions.
  • Undertaking lots of research but not making a final choice.
  • Being unable to make a decision despite there being a deadline.
  • Struggling to prioritize an impending decision.
  • Going mentally blank or feeling numb about the decision in front of you.
  • Constantly asking loved ones for their reassurance or opinions, instead of deciding for yourself.

When you have decision paralysis, these symptoms can show up for both big and small decisions. Whether you’re simply deciding what to wear on a particular day or choosing between job offers, daily life can become extremely draining.

What Might Decision Paralysis Signify?

Decision paralysis is likely to be caused by mental and emotional distress, but this can take many forms. For some, decision paralysis may appear after a long period of chronic stress. For others, it may indicate a mental health condition like anxiety or depression. 

We’ll now explore these different causes of decision paralysis and their respective signs:

Chronic Stress and Burnout

Decision paralysis and cognitive overload are commonly reported by people with burnout.[1] 

Burnout is a physiological state caused by an extended period of chronic and unmanaged stress and overwhelm. It may be connected to: 

  • Your job workload.
  • Caregiving responsibilities.
  • Perfectionism.
  • Financial hardship. 

When you’re burnt out, you feel mentally, emotionally, and physically exhausted, despite getting enough sleep. 

Chronic stress causes burnout and decision fatigue because of how it impacts hormones in the brain. During periods of stress, the body produces glucocorticoids, which can be destructive to certain neurons in the brain. Typically, this causes thinking problems such as decision paralysis and difficulty concentrating.[1] 

Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)

Decision paralysis is also commonly reported by people with attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). Research finds that 82% of people with ADHD find it difficult to make decisions, which significantly affects their performance at work.[2] 

ADHD causes decision paralysis because of something called executive dysfunction. This term describes a set of ADHD symptoms related to cognitive performance. As well as decision paralysis, you might:[2] 

  • Find it difficult to concentrate.
  • Go through periods of hyperfocus.
  • Struggle to prioritize your time or energy. 

Rather than temporary bouts of decision paralysis, people with ADHD experience this in the long term. 58% report decision paralysis at least once a week, and 35% report it happening on a daily basis.[2] Sadly, people with ADHD can frequently struggle to make important life changes, which can lead to feelings of:[2]

  • Regret.
  • Frustration.
  • Missed opportunities. 

Emotional Breakdown

Sometimes, decision paralysis will appear as part of a mental health crisis. This is commonly referred to as a “breakdown,” but this is not a medical term. It can involve an overwhelming amount of:[3]

  • Stress.
  • Anxiety.
  • Depression.
  • Mania. 

High levels of stress can cause decision paralysis, but that doesn’t always lead to burnout. Some people’s symptoms will escalate to the point of crisis, and it’s important to spot this as early as possible. A crisis means that someone: 

  • Has become unable to look after themselves.
  • Is at risk to themselves or others.
  • Can’t cope with daily activities.

Other symptoms of a mental breakdown or mental health crisis include:

  • Low mood and other symptoms of depression.
  • Thought and physical symptoms of anxiety.
  • Cognitive overload.
  • Feeling like you’re losing control.
  • Emotional shutdown.
  • Numbness.
  • Freezing.
  • Feeling like you’re in survival mode.
  • Not feeling “like” yourself.

These symptoms can indicate a serious mental health crisis, which should be tended to by professionals as soon as possible. That may mean making an appointment with your doctor or therapist, or if you or someone else is in danger, going to the emergency room.

Anxiety or Depression

Decision paralysis might also be caused by anxiety or depression. These common mental health conditions have a wide variety of symptoms, including cognitive ones. If you’re experiencing high levels of physical tension, excessive worrying, or persistent low mood, it may help to get an assessment for anxiety or depression.

Decision paralysis is common for people with anxiety because the condition creates excessive fear, worry, and biased thinking. When the brain is in a sustained state of fear, it makes emotional regulation extremely difficult. 

You’re more likely to focus on danger or threat and assume negative outcomes. For instance, people with anxiety are more likely to assume the worst-case scenario and become more anxious as a result.[4] 

Anxiety can make people assume the outcomes of their biggest life decisions will be negative. It’s also harder to weigh up information in order to make decisions when preoccupied with potential dangers. As a result, anxiety-induced indecision can lead to avoidance, which results in procrastination and missed opportunities.[4] 

Difficulty making decisions is also a core symptom of depression. One reason is that depression causes a pessimistic state of mind. When faced with a decision, the sense of potential disappointment can feel devastating. This can make decisions feel high-risk and cause a sense of paralysis.[5] 

Decision paralysis is also common with depression because of how the condition impacts the brain. Biological changes, such as hormonal activity, can affect how clearly you’re able to think. That’s why depression causes a range of cognitive symptoms, such as trouble concentrating.

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What Kinds of Therapy Help Decision Paralysis?

Therapy might seem unnecessary for decision paralysis, but various types of therapy can potentially help. Each cause of decision paralysis involves some level of emotional distress or disruption to daily functioning. If your well-being is suffering, professional support can help you understand and treat what’s going on.

Here are several kinds of therapy that can help with decision paralysis:[6]

  • Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT): If your decision paralysis is caused by emotional exhaustion or difficulty with emotional regulation, DBT might be the best option for you. This approach helps you sit with discomfort mindfully and develop coping mechanisms for difficult emotions. It can help with decision paralysis by lowering your levels of distress so you can think more clearly.
  • Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT): Chronic stress, burnout, anxiety, and depression can all be helped by CBT. By identifying the behaviors and thought patterns that happen around decision-making, CBT can help you build healthier thinking habits and reduce stress.
  • Psychodynamic therapy: If your emotional distress is rooted in past experiences or harmful relationships, psychodynamic therapy may be a good option. This approach looks at any underlying beliefs, experiences, or patterns from childhood that are contributing to decision paralysis now.
  • Exposure therapy: Though it can be challenging, exposure therapy is an option for people with strong levels of anxiety. Your therapist invites you to make decisions that help you overcome the fear of making the ‘wrong’ choice. It can also help you understand what is really beneath your anxiety.
  • Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) treatment: If decision paralysis is caused by ADHD, specific treatment will likely be necessary. Often drawing on other therapy techniques, ADHD treatment provides practical tools and emotional support for dealing with the symptoms of ADHD. That might include building routines, so you have to make fewer decisions each day, or breaking big decisions into multiple smaller ones. Treatment may include both therapy and ADHD medication.

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